The urge to get what we cannot.

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Holla Folks !
Hope you are doing fine. 
How dramatic it is to get only that thing which is quite not possible to procure in real life. In this busy schedule we barely get anytime to think about what we want and to the cherry on top we end up thinking of something that we cannot have. A married person may ponder to have back his bachelorette life, an old couple May contemporary to have their far gone children to be back in their own country, a mother who cannot afford to get what her children want me see her daughter shriek out for the beautiful doll her friend has, a broken heart may want to have her love back in any form and the list goes on. 
We humans have the tendency to muse about one thing that we cannot have and the urge to get it grows with time. I believe it is okay, to not have had everything is okay. We live our entire life thinking about ways to get that and fanaticise about WHAT IF I HAD that.
What made me write so is maybe not directly connect to what I want but yes that empathic nature might have connected to one observed thing and ignited the urge to get that one thing that I cannot have. Probably very funny to say but maybe that is related to the height, but the reality says I cannot have it. Still there blur some urge to have it and end up watching ways to get it. I wish life was that easier to have access to internet or particularly nowadays ChatGPT if I say and get whatever we want. The charm, the fire, the emptiness, the motivation this would have been missing in our lives. If I had that I wouldn’t mind not having anything too. 
So the only spur to write this today is to tell you that it is okay to not have everything and that what keeps you going on and on in your life. You might still not get it but it never lets that charm in you die at any stage of your life.
And here I end up with my today’s thought, meet you some other day.
Thanks for reading till the end.
With love
Disha.

Comments

  1. AnonymousJune 29, 2023 at 10:32 AM

    Wow it amazing ๐Ÿคฉ

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    1. AnonymousJune 29, 2023 at 10:38 AM

      Thank you๐ŸŒธ would love to know your name too.

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  2. AnonymousJune 29, 2023 at 12:14 PM

    Really true ♥️

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  3. Atika tanejaJuly 31, 2023 at 9:21 AM

    You are beautiful in your own way inside out ..

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