Each child is Unique

My child is unique. For a parent and a teacher each child is different and unique. They try their best to make them understand the same things. Yet one child does it easily while the other faces some difficulty in doing so, which is OKAY. Can’t we just normalise it and accept? Why do we force a child to do something that he is not able to do because he is unique and different in his/her own way.

Let’s give them the space they want, because in the growing scenario the ball lies always in other person’s court. In short it is the fault of the person on the other side. Forcing children will not help them learn instead create a negative mindset in them. The true example we can see our ourselves, children committing actions which they should not because they cannot take things where they are said to be wrong. We ourselves have created this environment for them. Now it’s us who can give them the space to live like they want and not be one from the crowd. 

The time is not that we can force them to do what we want. Guiding them is a good option always but not telling them that this is what you have to do.

Maybe I might seem wrong to many of you. But for once look around yourself and try to figure out the things, wherever expectations were forced the result was in loss of either a life or a well wisher. 

Let’s normalise the environment where your child can decide and you can guide keeping in mind not to force things.

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